Have the Waves of Crisis Pulled You Under?

Have the Waves of Crisis Pulled You Under - Anchor Of Promise

Years ago I watched the movie called, “The Impossible”.  It was based on the true story of a family engulfed in the waters of a large tsunami in Thailand.  Confronted with unimaginable obstacles, the parents were desperate to find their children and each other.  They would not give up no matter the cost.  The physical, mental, and emotional waves of agony from their circumstances would cause any parent to be fearful, distressed and in crisis.

Today, there are waves of crisis pulling many parents under through their hurting teen. In the eyes of the parent, their problems look too big and impossible to change for the better. These types of crises vary from family to family: suicidal attempts, mental illness, drug overdose, self-harming, risky behaviors, running away, etc… Continue reading

Should We Let Our Teen in Crisis Learn From Their Mistakes and Choices?

Should We Let Our Teen in Crisis Learn from Their Mistakes and Choices? - Anchor Of Promise

 

Someone once told me several years ago that I shouldn’t be as involved in my teen’s life and to let them make their own decisions and mistakes.  

I partially agreed.  You can say to most parents that letting your kids make their own mistakes is a good thing.  It teaches them many valuable lessons.

However, if you have a teen with a mental illness, a debilitating disorder, or a teen who has an addiction, you should never accept that advice.

When a teen is in crisis, they have many strikes against them. Here are just two.

  1. Their comprehending and reasoning skills are not fully developed yet as a teen.
  2. They are more prone to influences that encourage them to act upon risky behavior that is harmful.

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